The Kivin Method: The Oral Technique You Should Learn Now
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Giving your female sex partner mind-blowing oral sex doesn’t have to be complicated!
Pleasing her with your mouth is a coveted talent that can dramatically improve your sex life — and yes, YOU CAN learn these skills!
Kivin is a special method of cunnilingus that promises to bring on an orgasm in record time.
While every woman is different when it comes to achieving an orgasm during sexual pleasure, it’s crucial to make sure your basic oral sex skills are as exceptional and thrilling for her as they should be.
Once you’ve nailed the basics, you’ll have a solid foundation you can build on as you explore new oral sex techniques and moves.
When it comes to any kind of sex, novelty is extremely exciting.
Making her orgasm with new oral sex moves is no exception… and will also help you attain that legendary sex god -- or goddess -- status.
The Kivin Method is easy to learn and can enhance your oral sex technique to give her the pleasure and excitement she deserves.
1. Get The Position Right
Her comfort is key when it comes to any kind of sexual position, so don’t be shy and make sure she has all the pillows and cushioning she needs.
Once she’s settled in, she can focus only on the sensations you’re delivering, which increases your chances of making her climax.
If you don’t like having her leg resting on your back because that isn’t comfortable for you or is restricting your movement, just ask her to gently hold her knee or leg up against her chest.
When she’s aroused, you should be able to feel or see:
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- her clitoris swell up a bit and poke out from under her clitoral hood
- two small bumps on either side of the clitoral hood that are about the size of a small grain of rice. These are called “K points”
- nipples get erect
If it’s difficult for you to access her clitoris, it could take a bit of extra gentle coaxing to get her aroused enough for your tongue and mouth to be most effective during the Kivin Method.
Pay attention to her body language, like:
- raising her hips towards your mouth
- running her hand on the back of your head
- the noises she may make during your oral sex session
These are all good indicators to see whether or not she is enjoying herself.
2. Work Your Tongue
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The movement of your tongue is vital to the success of the Kivin Method.
Start by licking horizontally, instead of up and down.
Use the full surface area of your tongue, not just the tip, to cover more of her sensitive spots at the same time don’t be shy to use your lips to gently suck and kiss her labia and clit, too.
Use some variations with how you’re licking her to experiment with what feels best for her.
Start slowly, but gradually increase your pressure, speed, and rhythm to build tension and heighten her arousal.
Once you discover what she enjoys the most, stick with it, and continue on that rhythm to maximize her pleasure and lick your way to giving her a satisfying climax.
Pro Tips
1. Have Her Lay Comfortably On Her Back
Instead of putting your head vertically between her legs, position yourself beside her.
The reason this is a better angle is because your mouth will have better access to her clitoris and her labia (the inner and outer lips of her vulva, which are the outer parts of her vagina).
Plus, since this angle is different from the one you might usually take to pleasure her orally, she’ll experience new sensations and heighten her arousal.
2. Use Your Fingers Too
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Your hands can also be free to use your fingers to explore her vagina, her sensitive perineum area, and even her anus, if that’s something she enjoys.
To get easier access to her vulva, ask your partner if she’s comfortable lifting one of her legs up to her chest and laying it over your shoulder or back.
It’s easier than it sounds when you try it in person with your partner!
When it comes to positioning, you may also want to try coming in from either the left or right side.
Most women have different sensitivities on either side of their vulva. One way may feel a whole lot better than the other, or it may feel fantastic either way.
Ask her which side feels best for her, or experiment with both sides to discover what works for her.
Is The Kivin Method Worth Trying?
Absolutely! You have nothing to lose and only pleasure and learning to gain.
Exploring her body is fun and helps you both find new ways to stimulate her, which can also increase the intimacy between you.
You don’t need any extra toys or equipment to try the Kivin method... just bring your mouth!
If you can make your partner feel extra pleasure and maximize her orgasmic potential in a new way, and maybe even in a shorter amount of time than your usual oral sex technique might take, then the Kivin Method is definitely worth a shot.
What To Expect With The Kivin Method
While you may be trying out the Kivin Method on her to get her to orgasm, make sure NOT to put any pressure on her to climax.
If she feels pressured, she might be too focused on your goal and making you feel accomplished, instead of just relaxing and enjoying the pleasure of having you give her a luxurious oral sex session.
Your best bet is just to have her relax, and make the oral sex session all about her pleasure.
Experimenting sexually can be a LOT of fun for everyone involved when there’s no pressure for either of you to perform.
Just go with the flow, try out some new moves on her, and enjoy the moment. If an orgasm happens, then that’s fantastic!
But if it doesn’t, don’t be disappointed.
Practice makes perfect, and in the process, connecting with each other and learning more about her body and her desires is what’s most important… all of which can maximize both of your pleasure the next time you play together.
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